A memoir of love and loss, this tells the true story of how Decca Aitkenhead's husband Tony Wilkinson and her their 4-year-old son Jake drowned in the sea off Jamaica in 2014. Tony was a mixed race former prisoner, drug dealer and crack addict, who reformed himself and got an education; Aitkenhead is a prize-winning "Guardian" journalist. Looks at class, race, privilege and prejudice through the prism of their life and the tragic deaths.